P.R.A.Y
PAUSE
REJOICE & REFLECT
ASK
YIELD
Personal Worship
Jesus illustrates his hard saying today about retaliation.
Together we will pray (P.R.A.Y.) each day – ‘P’: Pausing to be still as we come into the presence of the Lord. ‘R’: Rejoicing as we remember who our God is and what He has done, and Reflecting on His word. ‘A’: Asking God to help us and others. And ‘Y’: yielding to His will in accordance with His word.
As I come before you to pray, I still my thoughts and quiet my mind. I seek to make you the center of my focus.
Prayer of Approach
We join King David as we pray the words of Psalm 86:
Incline your ear, O Lord, and answer me, for I am poor and needy. Preserve my life, for I am godly; save your servant, who trusts in you—you are my God. Be gracious to me, O Lord, for to you do I cry all the day. Gladden the soul of your servant, for to you, O Lord, do I lift up my soul. For you, O Lord, are good and forgiving, abounding in steadfast love to all who call upon you. Give ear, O Lord, to my prayer; listen to my plea for grace. In the day of my trouble I call upon you, for you answer me.
We choose to rejoice in the power of God’s Word, with all his people in Psalm 89:
I will sing of the steadfast love of the Lord, forever;
with my mouth I will make known your faithfulness to all generations.
For I said, “Steadfast love will be built up forever;
in the heavens you will establish your faithfulness.”
You have said, “I have made a covenant with my chosen one;
I have sworn to David my servant:
‘I will establish your offspring forever,
and build your throne for all generations.’”
Psalm 89:1-4
Today we are reflecting on the words of Scripture in Matthew 5:39b-42 where we read:
But if anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also. And if anyone would sue you and take your tunic, let him have your cloak as well. And if anyone forces you to go one mile, go with him two miles. Give to the one who begs from you, and do not refuse the one who would borrow from you.
Matthew 5:39b-42
Jesus is not laying down hard and fast rules in this passage, but he is dealing with great principles. He knows the human race is prone to revenge and retaliation. He is instructing his followers to live differently from that standard of the world. He begins with the example of being slapped on the cheek. Not just the pain that comes with that, but the great insult that would have been. How does he say to respond? To turn the other cheek. Don’t retaliate actually, take it a step further and be ready to withstand another slap. Remember great principles not just rules. Jesus then envisages someone who goes through the legal means to take your tunic. Odd in our modern world, but a real situation in their day. He says even though they had an inalienable right to the cloak to voluntarily surrender it anyways. His third example is referring to the authority that a Roman soldier had to make someone carry the luggage of military personnel a prescribed distance. That prescribed distance was the Roman mile which was 4,854 feet. A great distance and Jesus wants the attitude not just to do what you have to do angrily, but cheerfully in a way that you would go another mile. His final example is all about generosity, not retaliation. To give and to give generously. Jesus in this section of the text is dealing with our hearts. Our actions flow out of the desires of our hearts. He wants the hearts of his people not to be filled with retaliation because there is a better righteousness for us.
Lord, create in me a new heart. A heart that is not defined by this world and the culture around me, but a heart that desires what you desire and hates what you hate.
1)What are some modern-day examples or situations where this principle of not retaliating could come up?
2)Where is it difficult for me to obey this passage?
Lord, you are mighty to save and I ask that you would look upon your people with favor. See us in our brokenness and meet us. Would you power out your presence and power on us? Send your Holy Spirit. Bring revival to our land and let us glorify you because of it.
As I read the passage again slowly, I listen for anything that You would say to me in it. Help me see how to position my life in order to yield to your word.
But if anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also. And if anyone would sue you and take your tunic, let him have your cloak as well. And if anyone forces you to go one mile, go with him two miles. Give to the one who begs from you, and do not refuse the one who would borrow from you.
Matthew 5:39b-42
Yielding Prayer
God, I cannot obey this Scripture in my own power. Pour out your Spirit on me today. A Spirit that fills me with love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness, and self-control. I yield to your Word today and trust it completely. Give me help to obey you in the difficulty of this passage.
Yielding Promise
And now, as I move into the day ahead, the Lord who loves me reminds me in Romans 5:10:
For if while we were enemies we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, now that we are reconciled, shall we be saved by his life.
Romans 5:10
Closing Prayer
Lord, enable me, by the power of the Holy Spirit, to love you today with all of my heart, soul, mind, and strength; and to serve you today, by loving and caring for others as I do my own self; and, to exalt you today, by telling the people in my world about the abundant and eternal life found only through faith in Jesus.
*The P.R.A.Y. acronym has been adapted from the Lectio 365 app.